Skip to main content

Ashley Simpson: Monsters are Real


Two days before Ashley went missing, she posted a meme on her Facebook.  
This meme. 



She knew something was wrong.
She signalled it to her friends and family. 
She was in a bad relationship, and she sent out a few texts to friends and family.
Ashley was getting out.
As I said, two days later, she was missing. 
Days later, the men who were with her on the last day of her life decided to tell her mother.
Days.
There were three of them who went up to Margaret Falls that day.
Only two have lived to tell the tale -- the boys who took her up there, who drank with her, who talked with her, and yes, who fought with her, are all still walking around with zippers on their faces. 
They say they have no idea what happened to her, that she had somehow got up in the morning and left with nothing, no money, no car, nothing except a pink suitcase which has never been found. 
She was going home, they speculated.
Yeah, right.
Home was across the country, five provinces away. 
After reading that terrifying post, I got thinking. 
Maybe they aren't responsible for her death -- maybe a trucker took her, or the serial killer down the road, or a bear -- but they were responsible for her. 
And they let her down -- including her boyfriend, whom she loved and chose to spend her life with.
What kind of a man just lets her leave? What kind of man wouldn't move Heaven and Earth to find her, tearing up the roads, asking neighbours if they saw her?
What kind of man waits days to report her missing?
A monster. 
I've been going over this in my mind the last few days. 

Laying in bed last night, watching the Democratic Convention, hearing women talking about how their spouses nearly killed them, but they somehow managed to get out.
Not Ashley.
She never left Salmon Arm.
I'm sure she is still there, roaming the hills, a soul lost in the wilderness.
Last night, she spoke to me.
And this is what she said.
"Don't bother looking for me," she said. "I am in the wind.
"Go find my killers; they will tell you where they put me."
And so, the journey begins.

Comments

  1. Time to seek the truth. Well said.

    ReplyDelete
  2. I'll always believe it was her boyfriend who changed her life, and the lives of her family.. I was there to see his face, to watch his body language and to hear his tales.. No two stories were the same, he couldn't keep them straight!!! One day the truth will come out and I'll be sure to be standing in front of him...

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Ashley Simpson: Don't Let Her Die in Vain

  Six years ago, I was combing through my Facebook and I saw post from my cousin Julie Major. Her brother and his wife were frantically looking for their daughter Ashley who just days before had Facetimed her mom saying she was planning to return to her home in Niagara. Ashley never made it home. She was murdered in cold blood in her home in Salmon Arm then buried in a nearby field. It would be five and a half years before her body was located, and her boyfriend was charged with second degree murder.  Today, Ashley's urn has a sacred spot in her parents' home, and Derek Favell is in jail awaiting trial by judge and jury. The trial is expected to go into next year sometime. This has been an agonizing journey for Ashley's friends and family. The pain has never stopped, and the wounds are broken open every time the family has to sit through a series of pre-trial proceedings. Fortunately, this ordeal will end but the pain will never wane for the people, including me, who have b...

Ashley Simpson: A Father Remembers

I have asked Ashley Simpson's family and friends to give us a glimpse into the life she lived before going missing nearly a month ago. Here is how her father John remembers his sweet girl. Ashley was a treat when she came into this world, a smashing 9lbs 8 ounces with a  head full of hair and nails that needed to be clipped. She has made many friends in her journey of life and continues to make them as we speak. She has made this world a better place by her love of mankind and this place we call Earth; unfortunately this life she has lived hasn't been the best for her. She has suffered through unbearable pain and suffering through her menstrual cycles. She has cysts on her ovaries that make those 10 days a living hell. She had one of her ovaries removed when she was just 14; the other they won't take out till she is 40 or older. Years of hell for my Ashley. I so feel her pain every month but she doesn't quit, doesn't give in.   That'...

What Bell isn't telling you about Fibe TV

Update: This week, we switched back to Rogers after spending far too long using Bell's crappy television service. For those with Bell, read and weep. For those considering Bell, think twice even if you hate Rogers. RS I've always been an early technology adapter. I had a Betamax. That tells you everything (if you're over 50 at least). My first computer was a "Portable". It weighed 40 pounds and I had to lug it around town on a gurney. I've been through probably 15 computers in my lifetime. Apple is the best. It's also too expensive so I have a piece of shit HP, the one I'm writing this blog on. I've had cable, internet and now Netflix. American Netflix . That's how far ahead of the curve I am. I get all the newspapers for free. How? I disabled my cookies so they can't track me when I'm on the newspaper sites. Even the New York Times hasn't cottoned on to that trick. Hahaha. That will be a fifty buck consulting fee. Bein...